In loving, living memory, John Melançon 1928 – 2007
I don't think people quite believe me when i say i have some level of relationship autism. I just fail to recognize relationships between people - power, love - none of the subtler cues, whatever they are, do i catch. I have been fortunate enough to see a few good relationships up close, at a level of intimacy
Example of the moment, Grandpa took me to a little restaurant he likes, we talked with the owners quite a bit.
Afterwards he cannot believe that i had no idea they are gay. And a couple.
And i was paying attention to everything there! Computer not even with me, heh. I'm sure there are all sorts of things i should have noticed but i'm not even sure what they are.
Still, giving me romance advice.
Find out when she has time, what she's interested in. Invite her to something - a show, a dinner
me: she likes impromptu concerts
Grandpa: is she hippy or more straight? Then [cut the
Grandpa: not so much the beard but the hair
call her.